Happiness

 We don't even know why do we live, we don't even know where should we go when we're feeling lonely, we don't even know why we need to survive in this society. We just flow. Do what scheduled to do. Do what people ask us to do. But that doesn't make us any happier than before.
Some questions appear when we lost our happiness. Where is happiness actually? Do we have to find them or they will come surprisingly? This is the question that Google will never answer correctly. The question that has no theory. The question that every people will answer it differently. The question that the smartest people in this world cannot answer rightly.

Why? Because you make your own happiness. Our happiness is really ours. You decide what you want to do with what u have so u have the right to choose and decide what makes u happy. Not other people. Just you. what you want and what you into. Because when other people decide it even your closest buddy or even your parents, they will have their own perspective towards happiness and the answerrr may disappoint you. Make your own decision. Ignore what people ask you to do and make yourself comfortable with what you decide and what you into.

Decide your own happiness and make it really happened. If your happiness is all about money, expensive things, luxury car, expensive makeup, bags, and fashion thingy, so be a success and chase them, purchase all the things and make yourself happy. If your happiness is traveling, so go buy tickets and make some memory and experiences. If your happiness is friend or family take your time at least an hour in a day to keep contact with them to hang out with them, to stay close to them. If your happiness is as simple as seeing another people happy, make another people happy. Ask them what make them happy and make it true. Happy is your own perspective. Decide what makes u happy and let it be true.

But the question is, how to know what is our real happiness and only a temporary happiness? Learn from your experience. If i say that money can buy anything included happiness, do my expensive bag that i bought 10 years ago still makes me happy today? No, i am not. That happiness is temporary and only makes me feel satisfied in a really short term. Not today. Now, ask yourself, do you want a temporary happiness or a forever happiness? When we are in a position of depressed, stressed, we often survive by doing what makes us happy. That's why decide what makes us happy is important. But remember, stay positive. For me, What makes me feel happy in a long-lasting way is when im surrounded by my family. You can't count happiness that's why some people not being grateful for what is surrounding them. They don't realize that their source of happiness is already surrounding them. Why? because happiness is not countable. People right now is really materialistic. They are much more care with temporary happiness than the long lasting one. They much more care with what bag should i wear or how many shoes should i have than caring about their own self, their family. They much more care with something countable than something uncountable. They don't realize that something uncountable is much more precious than something countable. Like happiness, and money.

People realize that they really love someone is when they were gone. Grateful for what you have and remember that happiness is u decide. If you are surrounded by people who really care about you maybe your mom, boyfriend, or girlfriend, love them as much as you can because they are your source of happiness. Forever happiness. Without them, can you guarantee that you'll feel happy even you have tons of gold and money? So, Which one you choose, Money? or Family? 

You can have it all.. but be careful what you wish for. Greed, in the end, is a lonely road. -unknown-

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Have You Decide?

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